love in islam

Love In Islam
Love should be expressed properly in accordance with its size. If not, should merosakan. The rules of love and affection this needs to be preserved, so that should always be maintained and preserved its beauty as well as being a strong fortress.
For example, look at the husband and wife. Love and compassion should be a very strong fortress to face cubaan and test from God. If we are able to maintain the presence of compassion and love, we will have the best protection for large faces and the storms of life.
However, people often do not know the wisdom that is hidden behind a cubaan and exams. More so if the man had used his ego. Usually they will lose and tend mempesoalkan about exams and cubaan that happened.
For example when someone vomit feelings to someone he likes. Then they believe they will prevail bahawa relationship to the necromancer bridal bed. However, they broke up in the middle of the road.
This phenomenon is common in the society, but it is often difficult to deal with. If not careful, may lead to disappointment and influence to the joints of a person's life.
Often defeat a human in the test of Patience usual romance whack youth. In fact, the younger generation is expected by the public as an agent of change. Very affectionate when they lost in the struggle era, only kerana affairs of love and affection. Failure to maintain a sense of love. They just are not able to deal with the very basic nature when facing the trials of life.
When young people drop out of love, as if the end of all hope for the affection of jantina opposite. They are not. Them the opportunity to gain the affections of truth in that corridor is still wide open.
Even so, should we expect the love and compassion of God. Love and affection than the highest and best of love and affection from anywhere. We should always be positive prejudiced against God. So as to make us accept the fact when an expression of love and affection towards our neighbor interrupted in the middle of the road.
We also do not lose grip of life, namely Islam. After all, is something that we get the best results given by God. Although at first we did not understand and feel pain, but if we believe bahawa it is the best, we will willingly accept it.

    How to maintain and manage the feelings of love and affection that both the couples?
Usually, before marriage, young men and young women are always urgent and seemingly desperate to get married. But, after marriage, will taste bland kerana everything is known and open. Dream ever dreamed before get married first, often foundered in disputes, domestic violence, and divorce. In this case, there is a failure in keeping love and affection.How to teach the love of the Prophet of Islam?
Apostles themselves always gives warmth to his wives, particularly Aisha. He always played and praised Aisha. Simple and easy to put into practice to maintain warmth. For example, by practicing to kiss his wife 3 times a day. No need stealth. If I may, before the children so that they may see ibubapanya happy.
Apostle also always pointed out to deliver good words to his wife every day like, "You're so pretty today." Apostle mencontohkannya to always call Aisha to prod the "cheeks". Expressions such as these, although seems ridiculous Ngada, but it is the prayer of the heart revealed.
No need to buy beauty tools are expensive so the wife become more beautiful by the day. Enough with praise every day, then the wife will look prettier, though getting older day by day. Kerana wife beauty is in her heart.
The good deeds will always be seen by God. He promised that if there are servants who do good by trying to maintain the love and keep love as a husband kerana Allah, Allah will be approached. When his servant approached with a walk, God will get him to run. This appointment should be a motivation for us to always keep our families well.

    "Do not spend your love and affection in the period before menikah.Masih there is a long journey in the household later".